Ways To Improve Intimacy

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Disclosure more to feel closer

Make time for deeply emotional conversations

Do something new or big together

Initiate Sex

Shake up Routine

Allow tension to build

Carve out time to spend with your partner

Focus on affectionate touch

Practice being more emotionally vulnerable during sex

Intimacy is more than words or sex.

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Disclosure more to feel closer- Opening ourselves on a more deeper level accesses intimacy. Discussing our inner selves about needs, wants and desires encourages us to open up.Talking about what turns you on, what your fantasies are and what we need sexually are perfect examples.Your partner should be aware of your fears, insecurities and even what turns you off. The more you disclose the closer you two will be intimately.

Make time for deeply emotional conversations Like discussing how your day was and your thoughts of how your day went. Telling your partner ideas about starting up a new business, where you want to vacation at even gossip about your least favorite colleague will do.

Do something new or big together Finding a new activity or hobby together will spark intimate feelings for one another. Try bowling, walk through the park, concert. Discover new activities and interests about each other and act on them. Being able to see your partner in a different light will spark new interest you have to share.

Initiate Sex If your the partner that usually doesn't initiate sex make it different, initiate the sex this time. Switching roles will be just as fun and who knows maybe you'll like making the first move. Be the dominant one instead of the submissive. Don't want to see whose going to initiate sex first.

Shake up the routine Instead of sticking to the predictable, boring routine. Spice it up with doing something new. This will bring excitement to the relationship. Letting your partner know that routine isn't OK especially during sex is just as important. Seeking that adventurous side in you and becoming more unpredictable is what we all want in the relationship. We don't want our relationships to become routine. Would you want your partner to be able to read your ever thought?

Allow tension to build Letting tension build between you two will make the sex that much better. Letting anticipation take the roll of how it was in the beginning when you first started dating. That rush of tension of wanting each other so bad will come alive again to relive.

Carve out time to spend with your partner Strictly make time for your partner and spend quality time with them and for them. Setting aside time for your partner is crucial. This lets your partner know how much you really mean to them. Canceling plans for them will let them know how important they are in your life.

Focus on affectionate touch Exploring your lovers skin will let them know you just don't want sex. You want to take the time out in discovering their erogenous zones with affectionate touch. Discovering what spots are most sensitive will allow you to access a deeper understanding of what really turns your partner on when things do get heated.

Practice being more vulnerable during sex This is a skill you build over time. Being able to surrender and let go sexually with your partner is all the intimacy we ask for. Allowing your brain to be fully relaxed and feeling comfortable are key factors in making this happen.

Intimacy is more than words and sex Intellectual, Spiritual, Physical, Sexual and Emotional Intimacy is deeper connection we all want. Intimacy is like peeling back an onion layer by layer it takes time and dedication.